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They've been plowinglikehorsesall their lives,draggingeverythingandeveryoneontheirback,marryinglosers,alcoholics, andotherassholes.Foralltheirspiritualvirtues, they age quickly, at the ageof30-35 they turnintounkempt women,whomno one perceivesaswomenanymore.Andfirst of all, theirhusbands don'tperceivethem that way.Butthebitchybeautieswho are on their own, they don't give a damnaboutallthispiousnonsense, they rollthroughlifelikecheeseinbutter,and the menarechosen:richandsuccessful.There are exceptions, of course,butthisproves the rule. I judgeby my ownexamplesfromlife: My childhoodfriend, the daughter of my mother's friend, has alwaysbeenmodestanddecent. She was an excellent studentatschool,studied for a long time, and became a doctor. She marriedherfirstman. The husbandturned out to be a beggarand a raregoat. For a longtimehedidnotwork at all,shefullyprovided for her family,earned money forhisexpensivehobby,deliciousfoodand a goodrestforhim. She gave birth to a child,thenheabandonedthem,foundanotherwoman, does nothelp the child,alimonyispennies.Andshepulls the childaloneagain,"plows"frommorningtoevening as a pediatricianin a polyclinicforseveral hours,looksunkempt, has gained weight,andin her youthwas a veryprettyandattractivegirlwhoshowsgreatpromise.Andnow the ex-husband is "walkingon wheels" in front of the newwoman,raisingherchildren. A formerclassmatestarteddatingmenearly. Her character was alwaysnasty, she onlycaredabout her beloved, and she didn't give a damn about theopinions of others.She comes from an ordinaryfamily,afterschool she begandatingonlyguysfromwealthyfamilies,enlargedherbreastsandlips. I don't think I've workedanywhere,but I've been drivinganewSUV for 20years,vacationingatexpensiveresorts:Maldives,Goa,Dominican Republic,Dubai. There arerestaurants,clubs, andbeautysalons all the time.Everythingcouldbeobservedthroughhersocial media.Then she marriedaverynice,smartguyfrom a verydecentfamily. They had a beautifulwedding,had a childwithhim, and livein an elitehousein a largeapartment of 150meters.Now he drivesaMercedes,doesn'twork anywhere,justspendsand has fun,goestofitness,looksgorgeous, well-groomed,constantlytravels.Herhusbandadores her,constantlygives her gorgeousbouquets.Now,inmy opinion, she is alreadypregnantagain.Ialsohave an oldercousin. I marriedforlove, I couldn't get enoughofmyhusband.Herparentshelpedhimfinancially,hewent into business,butthen went bankruptandfellintodepression. I didn'twant anything, I layon the couch,wenttoexpensivepsychologists, had relaxingmassages, and recoveredemotionally.Well, howelse?He's a sufferer,he's got a tragedy in his life– a failedbusinessman.And my sisterworkedtirelessly,earning extra money,becausealot of money was neededforalltheseprocedures. I couldn't have a babybecause I had to work.And her husbandbecameuninterested,depressed.Andyearslater, it turned out thathehadbeencheating on her for a long time. Everyone had alreadytoldhertostopacting like that,shewasn'tlistening to anyone.Heleftherin the end, and nowshe's trying to putherlife back together somehow,allsad.Sodrawconclusions.
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Вот и думаю может связать уже себя этими самыми узами брака с более-менее подходящим претендентом ( но как представлю, что весь мой налаженый быт и устои рухнут - в шок впадаю, я так привыкла жить одна). С другой стороны,каким он будет такой муж: тюфяком, если будет жить со мной, зная что я его не люблю, или дураком, который не понимает, что я в эту самую любовь играю, короче варианты не супер.
Я любила когда-то парня, много настрадалась с ним. При чем любила я безусловно, он был самый обычный тогда - без денег, работа мелкая , внешне самый обычный и низкорослый. А я на все была готова с ним. Замуж за него вышла. А он об меня ноги вытирал. В итоге я дошла до точки кипения и ушла от него, подала на развод.
Да! Ты правильно всё написала, молодец 😘